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I feel like a lot of the posts here lately have been very off topic and offensive to other members. There was a complaint from a member basically stating they were not happy with the jokes and side comments people are making and they were reconsidering being a member here. I felt embarassed by it.
I understand that most of you want to talk together and have fun but there is a time and a place for some of the remarks and usually it's not here on tegu talk. I'm not being overly sensitive and I'm not trying to put others down or be "mean". I've been here since mid-2010 and I've never seen anyone state they were leaving because of the rudeness and disrespect for others until recently.
Disrespectful comments are not going to be tolerated, if you have an issue with another member you can contact a mod or resolve it between yourselves. No more bashing others because of the way they chose to type or because of their grammar. Please continue to offer your input when it comes to care for an animal but do so in a civilized manner. It can be hard to put emotion into text, it is possible that something's are just misunderstood. Take a minute to re-read what you're typing before you submit it.
When you're asked to stop talking about something, just stop. It's not because we want to "silence" you, it's because we don't want things to get out of control. If you have an issue or a question send us a message. We don't do things to spite you, we do it to keep the forum friendly and informative. It makes me sad to see members leaving, I don't think anyone should feel they have to leave because of things like this. I think most of you know what I am talking about, if you are truely clueless let me know and ill break it down for you. Sorry for the long rant, I'm just so tired of seeing this nonsense.
If you choose to leave please be mature about it. You're more than welcome to say you're leaving but I don't think it's nesessary to bash the form. Again, I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad and I know I'm not just speaking for myself when I post this. I hope no one takes this the wrong way, I enjoy you all and enjoy what you bring to the forum. I don't post too much anymore but I am always lurking and reading.
I understand that most of you want to talk together and have fun but there is a time and a place for some of the remarks and usually it's not here on tegu talk. I'm not being overly sensitive and I'm not trying to put others down or be "mean". I've been here since mid-2010 and I've never seen anyone state they were leaving because of the rudeness and disrespect for others until recently.
Disrespectful comments are not going to be tolerated, if you have an issue with another member you can contact a mod or resolve it between yourselves. No more bashing others because of the way they chose to type or because of their grammar. Please continue to offer your input when it comes to care for an animal but do so in a civilized manner. It can be hard to put emotion into text, it is possible that something's are just misunderstood. Take a minute to re-read what you're typing before you submit it.
When you're asked to stop talking about something, just stop. It's not because we want to "silence" you, it's because we don't want things to get out of control. If you have an issue or a question send us a message. We don't do things to spite you, we do it to keep the forum friendly and informative. It makes me sad to see members leaving, I don't think anyone should feel they have to leave because of things like this. I think most of you know what I am talking about, if you are truely clueless let me know and ill break it down for you. Sorry for the long rant, I'm just so tired of seeing this nonsense.
If you choose to leave please be mature about it. You're more than welcome to say you're leaving but I don't think it's nesessary to bash the form. Again, I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad and I know I'm not just speaking for myself when I post this. I hope no one takes this the wrong way, I enjoy you all and enjoy what you bring to the forum. I don't post too much anymore but I am always lurking and reading.