hey guys im putting a down payment on a black and white tegu from bobby next week and cant decide if i want a male or female.... I want the tegu to be as tame as possible and i heard males are more tame then females but i dont think that would be a prolblem or concern with one of bobbys tegus any input here guys? I also want my tegu to get as big as possible lol i would get a giant but its my first pet so i dont want to go all out plus i wana use that extra cash to make the best set up possible ... Now I do like the look of the female better to me there cuter with the smaller face and that tegu juancho is the coolest little tegu i seen her videos inspired me to want a tegu , I originally wanted a monitor or iguana but then seen how awesome tegus are and i want one of them instead... What do u guys think anybody own each kind and tell any differences ?